Brunette girl facing away, naked in outdoor lake

Naked in front of the mirror honest

I’m getting really sick of hearing women say: I’ve tried everything but …

I can’t lose weight

I can’t grow my business

I can’t make money

I can’t get new clients

I can’t eat healthy

And you know what?


You haven’t tried everything.

And even if you had tried everything, that was THEN and this is NOW.

You can’t play today’s game with yesterday’s rules.

Move on. Move forward. Grow.

It’s time to be REALLY honest with yourself.

Like, naked in front of the mirror honest.


Because while you’ve played the game, you didn’t do the work on the most important player: YOU!

You got comfortable.

You stayed stuck.

You expected others to invest in your stuff when you were sending out a subconscious message that you weren’t ready to receive greatness, responsibility, wealth and success.

You weren’t ready to up your own game.

Sure, you invested in a group programme, coaching, membership sites, PDFs …

But you didn’t invest in the most valuable part of your life, your wealth and your health: YOU.

I’m sorry but you’ve only been skimming the surface. #SorryNotSorry

You didn’t put in the time to work on what really makes you feel alive.

You didn’t put in the time to figure out who you really are deep inside.

You didn’t tune into your heart.

You didn’t allow yourself to be supported.

You didn’t truly connect with your soul; your inner feminine wisdom.

Who are you?

Many times you showed up as happy, healthy, wealthy and successful. Putting on a brave front of ‘everything is fine and it’ll all be ok once I get my next client or finish the next course.’

But it wasn’t true, was it?

It isn’t true.

You’re hiding.

And I don’t just mean being unwilling to go on FB live video or hit Tinder for a spontaneous date.

I mean, you’re hiding deep inside your body. The real you, the beautiful, amazing warrior goddess here to create change and bring love into people’s lives. YOU are hiding inside. It’s subtle of course. So subtle that you don’t realise you’re doing it. So subtle that those around you can’t quite put their finger on it. But the energy that creates? That’s the energy that stops the flow of abundance coming to you. The flow of new clients, money, opportunities, creativity and ideas.

Do the inner work. Figure out who you REALLY are. Be honest about what you really want.

(Hint: It’s not what everyone else wants or what the coach with the biggest following wants.)

You’re the only one standing in your way.

What are you going to do about it?

Lorraine xx

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